Thursday, May 28, 2009

Port Charles

We Love! Port Charles (Not the daytime soap, the dipping sauce!)

I had the honor of being one of the first to try a new sauce for steak, chicken, pork, burgers, etc. It's called Port Charles, named after the creator of this concoction (Charlie) and an important ingredient (port wine). Read my review.

And then order some of your own. It's FANTASTIC!

-Steph

Port Charles Red Wine Reduction Sauce

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Print is Not Dead! ....yet.

With the Boston Globe newspaper sitting on shifting sands and unsure of its sustainability as a print product, the debate continues on the state of the newspaper industry.

Print vs. electronic news is not a new debate, however.

We (journalist/newspaper/magazine people) have been grappling with this for several years. We saw it coming with the advent of the Internet-- not its early roots as a network for government and academia-- but, more specifically, when business began to embrace it. That was, I would say, in the mid-to-late 90s.

Back then, I was a cub reporter at a weekly technology newspaper, called PC Week (later renamed, eWeek to reflect, what else, the ‘electronic’ age). Software companies would come in to brief us on their new application that would give businesses a presence on the Web. We’d nod, and smile, and ask poignant questions like, “Why does a retailer need to sell their merchandise on the Internet?” “Who is going to shop that way?” “What’s the return on investment expected to be?”

Fast-forward ten years: It’s the only way I shop.

About five years ago, I took a class at Harvard Extension School on local journalism taught by two editors at the Boston Globe. They were fantastic teachers, and, it was because of them that I later got my chance to become a Globe correspondent (thank you Dave and Mark!). During one class, they brought in the Globe’s online editor to discuss how news writing works on the Web—a fairly new concept for mainstream media at the time. It is meant to be a dynamic, real-time platform that can be interactive and proactive, it was explained.

The question I had, however, was, “Will you just repackage stories from print to the Web, and vice versa? And, if not, and the Web is so dynamic, how do you make sure the print product doesn’t become stale as a result, in which case, readers and advertisers may lose interest?”

The three editors looked at each other as if I had just exposed a horrible secret. Turns out, they had been having those conference room conversations for months already. It was an unresolved question…And, it appears that it still is.

As a journalist, and someone who loves to sit at the table every morning with her Boston Globe newspaper, scanning the stories, turning the pages, leaving it open to come back to later, I don’t want to see the demise of print news. But as someone who actually reads the major news stories on the Web first (when I log on at 6:00 a.m.), and has watched major shifts in technology—and business-- unfold in front of my eyes, I know you can’t stop the inevitable.

Print, I hope, will never go away completely. But when I look at my kids, and how they get their information—even textbooks are repurposed on the web—I do imagine there could be a time when information is 100% electronic.

Now is the time to figure out the news formula of the future.

-Steph

Thursday, April 2, 2009

NudiEnomics

So it seems that stripping has become a lucrative career path. Yes, I mean taking off your clothes and dancing around a pole. Apparently, women impacted by this incredibly crappy economy are shaking their money-makers—literally. And, they are making huge bucks!

I found the news reports about this latest trend interesting and somewhat entertaining. White collar working women are making extra money on the side-- which in some cases can be six figures! I didn't put much more thought into this latest trend until recently when a friend mentioned she was checking out the 'adult entertainment' industry as a potential path.

At first, I thought it was a joke. But she was serious, she had already done some research. Research? Like, finding out the average salary range, the credentials required, and who’s hiring? I listened. I understood the points she made. And, then, when she said, “But, I don’t think I can do it”, I let out a sigh of relief. “I don't think you should do it,” I said.

Was I right to insert that opinion? I’ve been thinking about it a lot since that conversation. Who am I to tell another person what she can or can not do? Desperate times call for desperate measures. I guess…I don’t know. What would I do?

After much thought, I would have to say, if I were in need of money I would shy away from taking center stage as a pole dancer. Mainly because the thought of being naked in a crowd feels more like a bad dream (you know the one, you are standing in the train station or sitting in a class and realize you forgot to get dressed-- or, am I the only one that's had that dream?)The other big reason pole dancing is not in my immediate future is because I can't dance-- which I believe is a prerequisite.

So, as you can tell, I've already put some thought into this. My question to you is: How do you feel about the “from jobless to topless” trend? What would you do?

-Steph

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Word Up

We all know what a ‘Cougar’ is by now: “A woman in her 40s on the hunt for a younger man”. But do you know what a ‘Googar’ is? “A Grandma cougar. A hot lady in her 50s or 60s that is on the prowl for a younger man.”

I got that definition straight from the Urban dictionary, an online resource for all things slang. It is filled with definitions of words and phrases-- most of which you’d never find in Webster’s-- that are informative, funny and, yes, sometimes very offensive. Overall, it’s rather entertaining.

Here are some examples of my expanding vocabulary: a ‘sargasm’ is a sarcastic exaggeration, the end-all of sarcasm, a sarcastic climax, so to speak. “Flirtexting” is the art of flirting through your Blackberry or phone, and “déjà moo” is the feeling you’ve heard this bullshit before (among other definitions, this is not a G-rated site).

I stumbled upon this site after trying to figure out what the hell “make hay while the sun shines” means. A quick Google search and I found out, but then I got ‘googledrift’ (to drift aimlessly between subjects of interest by finding them accidently on the web), and I got sucked into a new world of words.

So, I’ve just wasted an hour clicking around and laughing. But, finding new words can be fun. And laughing, I just realized, is never a waste of time!

L8r ladies (l8r: a chat expression for ‘later’).

-Steph

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Hard Time Hovering

I just read a really interesting article in the Boston Globe on “helicopter parents”. It caught my eye only because I just heard that term for the first time while chatting with a friend a few weeks ago. It seems there’s a helicopter movement out there that I was completely unaware of. And, after reading the article, I understand why.

I am NOT a helicopter parent. I don’t ‘hover’, and I definitely don’t over-parent. As a single mother, with a full-time career, a budding business, and a small side job, I depend upon my 13 year old daughter and my 15 year old son to be responsible and make the right decisions. To be clear, they don’t always make the right decision. As teens, 8 out of 10 times they make the wrong decision. And I will be there to guide them, to show them the way, to allow them to learn from their experiences—and mistakes-- and grow into a competent young adult. But, I won’t hold their hands the entire time.

I’m more like an F-35 Joint Strike Fighter kind of parent.

The F-35 JSF is an affordable, supportable, and survivable craft designed for the battlespace of the future. A product of the Department of Defense, there are nine nations collaborating on the multi-year development and demonstration of this product.

If you don’t get the analogy, let me explain:

First, while I so loved to coddle my kids when they were young, now it’s my job to prepare them for the future. It’s a tough world out there and they better be ready to fight for themselves, because I can’t do it for them. I’ve got my own battle. I’m moving at warp speed every day to keep this family going.

Second, I know I can’t do this alone, so I enlist my family and friends to help me raise these little freedom fighters-- much like the DoD has done by inviting nine nations to help with 'development'.

Don’t get too caught up in the military lingo, here, as I’m definitely not looking for my kids to ship off overseas into another—more literal—battleground. I’m just raising them to be independent, strong-willed, likeable, empathetic human beings, whom, I hope, are directed by an ethical moral compass. And, eventually will learn how to support themselves, and not live off of Mommy until they are 30 years old. This family is affordable, supportable, and survivable and ready for the future.

I hope that doesn’t sound like tough love. It’s not. I love my kids with all my heart. I give them everything they need and want. I don’t want to see them hurt or in pain or struggling. But I challenge them to challenge themselves.

No more handholding. It’s time to take to the sky and learn how to fly!

-Steph

Friday, February 20, 2009

Sweet Tweets!

If you haven’t jumped on the social networking/blogging bandwagon, let us give you a push onto the platform, ‘cause the train is leaving the station and it’s moving at high speed! What am I talking about? I have no idea, and its okay, I don’t have to know what I’m talking about, I’m a blogger!

Today, however, I’m going to try to educate SSW/Wink readers on the latest technology time-stealer. It’s called Twitter. And while I’m still trying to figure it out, I’m starting to get the hang of it, and I think I’ve got the Twitter bug!

Twitter is a micro-blogging service that allows you to send out short messages (146 characters) called “tweets”. You send the tweets to your peeps (oh, this is way too easy!) who sign up to follow you. You can get the messages on the website www.twitter.com or you can request to have them sent to your phone (like a text message).

The types of messages you receive will typically be uninteresting activities that friends think you ‘must know’. For example, “Just finished lunch” could be a typical tweet. Which, nobody really cares about. But, say you are following Kathleen Sullivan, our Wink South fashion correspondent, who is at Fashion Week in NYC and tweets this message to the world: “Hold on to your 80s outfits, shoulder pads are back en vogue!” Now that might be an interesting tidbit, no? Timely information that you can really use!

Or, I’ve heard stories like this: A guy gets off a plane in Chicago, sends a Twitter message that he’s, “In O’Hare with 4 hour delay”. He gets a tweet back that his friend is in the same airport. They meet for a drink at the airport bar. So, it turns out, Twitter is not a complete waste of time!

In fact, I’m here to tell you that in the world we live in, social networking via the Web is the only way to go. If you don’t get it, I suggest you try to figure it out. Not only does it keep people connected while juggling very hectic lives, but our kids are growing up with this. To them, communicating via instant message and Twitter is second nature. They blog, they post YouTube videos, and they create Facebook communities.

We here at SSW/Wink South are doing the same thing. We started with the Wink South Blog (which you are reading!). We established a presence on Facebook (join the South Shore Woman group to plug in with crafty SoB women-- that’s South of Boston). And, we created Daily Cravings-- which gives you easy access to menu and daily specials from local restaurants—in which the restaurant members also get their own blog—check out The Chef’s Table blog, and chime in to get the party started.

Blogging is the best way to find out what’s really going on because there’s no journalistic integrity associated with it whatsoever, it’s all about your opinion with a dash of personality!

So blog, and follow us on Twitter! (see link to the right). Whether you’re just nosey, or you are interested in finding out about some of the cool stuff we see and people we meet each month as we are updating the SSW/WinkSouth site, you can’t beat the tweet! We’ll fill you in. And, as always, we’ll have fun!!!!!


-Steph